4 Tools to Calm Your Mind

In our last blog we talked a little able quick coherence and it’s ability to help you to calm your body. There are many tools to support you in doing this. Remember – dealing with heavy emotions such as grief, anxiety, sadness, & anger are too often fought with words and thoughts. Instead getting into your body will support you in calming down faster, and increasing your ability to look at the situation with a different perspective.

Below you will see 4 tools that will support you in calming your body. Practice outside of times where you are feeling intense emotions often helps when we need to use these tools in intense times.

Guided Imagery Meditation – Calm the Mind

Meditation can be an amazing way to calm the body. For most people when they are struggling with anxious thoughts, clearing the mind makes them more anxious. This is where guided imagery comes in! You can find different meditations in a lot of different places: insight timer, youtube, headspace. Here is a guided imagery meditation that is a favorite of mine: Forest Imagery

Guided Imagery is all about visualizing going to a place that you find calming. Preferably without any people or pets. For me, forect scenary or anything near water does it. Every person is different, so think about places in your life that you have been where you have felt stillness, or peace. Is this on a boat, at a beach, on a hike, inside on the couch? No judgments. And then do a quick search for a guided meditation in this place online. I recommend starting short (5 minutes or less) and slowly finding longer meditations as you find this practice supportive to you.

Breath Work – Calm the Body

Breath work focuses on the breath. Learning to slow or speed up your breath based on your needs. If you are feeling shut down, you may need a more shallow and rapid breath to get yourself more energy. If you are feeling stressed or overly anxious then you may need a slower breath.

A good one to start with is box breathing. Here are the steps:
1. Draw a line up while you inhale for 4 seconds
2. Draw a line to the right as you hold your breath for 4 seconds
3. Draw a line down as you exhale for 4 seconds
4. Draw a line left as you hold for 4 seconds

Give this a try a few times in a row and see how your body responds!

Bilateral Music – Calm the Body

Bilateral music is what we use in Brainspotting. Because the music throughout processing is in support of calming your midbrain down so you are able to process more wihtin your window of tolerance, it is a great outside skill to calm the body. The back and forth movement supports both sides of your brain with talking to one another and calming the amygdala (your alarm system).

Here is a track to get you started: Bilateral Music. This one can be great to pair with breath work as well!

5 Finger Breathing

Last but not least, 5 finger breathing. This is similar to breath work – also supportive to using your own body in pairing with it. This helps the mind and body become more present. Rather than falling into the past or hyper focusing on the future it can simply be in the here and now.

  1. Start to trace one of your hands with another
  2. As your finger goes to the tip of your hand inhale
  3. As it comes down towards your palm exhale
  4. Do this for both hands

This is another way to support you mind/body in calming, regulating and centering. Once you have done this – you can go back to the problem and look at it with a new perspective. Perhaps reflect on what within you was triggered by the situation & if you need to say or do anything, or simply give yourself compassion.

Patrice Flanagan-Morris, LCSW
Empowerment WIthin LLC

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